The Egg That Hatched

Life has honored you by allowing you to meet so many people. They are nice and cozy if you feel it, cold and bitter if you don’t. So how do you know that, is the big question?

So let’s split the circumstances into two different parts.

Walking down the stairs you meet a person who on your first judgment doesn’t appear to be hospitable.

Judgment, bias and dislike have originated due to the conditions and situations life has put you through. We all have a habit of relying heavily on them. It really wouldn’t mean that you are in a negative frame of mind. This situation might even happen when you are happily singing that lovely song. Personally you may have a disliking towards the name Mohit. All these situations and conditions have somehow been encoded in your mind. When you see the word Mohit, you know its going to be a tough day ahead.

Walking down the stairs I met a person who on my first judgment appeared to be nice.

Judgment, bias and liking have again originated due to the conditions and situations life has put you through. This situation is again not so different from the situation above. All Priya’s in your world might have been stunning. So, when you encounter the word Priya, you are all guns blazing. You feel like flying not realizing that you are still human and not a mutant. Again both the persons are perched in their comfort zone, high on happiness.

So how does the situation resolve?

Interpreting in both the above situations is not OK. All these interpretation even before you have actually taken an effort to meet or talk to any of them. Sometimes you may be surprised by your brains ability to act that fast. The driver of these feelings could be a situation that might have happened earlier in the day, it could also be the state of mind you are in. The way you react to that person would decide the next few conversations.The recipient of your message has no idea whatsoever about the state you are in. He like everyone else has his situations and conditions to rely on. Both the persons comfortably perched in their comfort zone.

This situation in a comic way can be taken as two eggs just sitting besides each other, both not ready to crack. So the next time when you see just anyone in the lift, on the stairs, literally anywhere, just pop a “Hi”. You will see the two eggs collide and form a pattern, which both of you will love to admire. Then you will realize that your feeling of the person was totally based on your core feeling. The feelings that have been installed and upgraded as time went by. Come out of the egg and extend that barrier. Its a totally different world. It might become messy, but what’s the use of being all dressed up for nothing?